The love for a three year old should be genuine and patient and understanding and respectful, but I have learned personally for the 3 year old that rests within me, I need to also set boundaries, for a 3 year old that is unchecked is one that can wreck havoc, with the utmost positive and genuine intension.The art is to learn how to balance all the parts of us that we have disenfranchised or hated in our lives. And as much as I hate to admit it, it does start with my first memory and my accurately my interpretation of that memory over the years. Which makes me think an adult unchecked can wreck havoc with the best intentions as well.
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